The Lack of sexual desire in a marriage is often a combination of many factors including selfjudgement, fear of rejection, misunderstanding and lost romance.
If decreased desire in a husband or wife becomes a problem, couples need to begin the solution by having a hearttoheart talk outside of the marriage bed. Some feel they are wrong to expect their marriage partners to have sex with them.
Your husband may suggest that the best way for you to renew your sexual desire of him is to just have sex with him whenever he wants. That would nail you to your electric fence for sure. Don't respond to his suggestion in a disrespectful way, just write it down along with other suggestions.